MSB BALL ft. Coach Russ Juson | Life of Boss F
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Ayan, mas gusto mga ano.
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At nandito ako ngayon, gusto ko magpasalamat sa inyong lahat dahil kahit galing pa kayo sa ibang lugar sa Pilipinas,
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is gumawa kayo ng paraan para makapunta dito.
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At muli, welcome to MSB Ball 2023.
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Raise your right hand if you're happy and excited to be here tonight.
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Anyone na pilitan lang, napilitan lang.
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So, whether you're happy and excited,
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or you were forced to be here,
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I'd like to honor and acknowledge you
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Thank you, Frank.
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Thank you, Iris, from the bottom of my heart
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for really showing up for yourself tonight.
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Pinapalakpakan ko yan.
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Pakilala ko yung sarili ko?
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So, my name is Ras Susan.
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Can everyone say,
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Please do not call me, sir.
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when they see people speaking in front,
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they always call him, sir.
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Also, don't call me, ma'am,
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kahit nakapalda ko ngayon.
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Hindi siya palda.
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Pantalon po, yan.
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Just call me, Ras.
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Some of you are younger than me.
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I am 52 years old.
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Raise your right hand
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if you are younger than me.
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Wow, halos lahat.
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Maraming salamat.
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Do not call me, kuya.
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Hindi din magkapatid.
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At lalong-lalong ate.
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Just call me, Ras.
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And a lot of people call me Coach Ras.
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But I would love to be called by your first name.
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Can you ever say, Hi, Ras?
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I was born and raised in Davao City.
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May mga taga-Davao ba?
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Wow, palakpak yung mga taga-Davao.
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And pwede bang magyabang?
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Ay, parang ayaw nyo.
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Laksan nyo, laksan nyo.
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Pilitin nyo ako, pilitin nyo ako.
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At 52, I'm standing here in front of you.
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Now, having the greatest health ever.
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When you say greatest health ever,
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it was so impossible for me to achieve health.
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Ako pa yung lumaking feeling ko,
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pangit-pangit ko.
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Pakisabi sa katanya,
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feeling mo bang pangit ka?
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Pakisabi, friend!
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Ladies and gentlemen,
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Here's what's gonna happen.
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In a moment, I'll ask you to raise your right hand like this.
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Raise your hand like this.
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And I want you to look someone
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na naka-raise pa ng hand
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na hindi mo kasama sa iyong lamesa.
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Somebody different.
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And the moment you see a hand like this,
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so raise your hand.
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And then maybe I see his hand,
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I'll touch his hand,
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and magpapaalam ko.
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Can we have a conversation?
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Pwede ba tayo makipagpuntuhan?
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And this is a fair,
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ibaba mo yung kamay.
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Pero pag sinabi niyang no,
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Meron pa namang iba.
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Huwag ka na ng hurt.
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Huwag masyadong ma-update,
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buti kung maganda.
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Most important part is urgency.
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What's the most important part?
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If in case tapos na yung music
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at nakaataas pa rin kamay
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kung wala kang kapares,
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I'll ask you to come up here
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and I'll ask you to dance with me.
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And you don't want that to happen.
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Are my instructions clear?
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you are to look for someone inside this room
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who you don't know,
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outside your table.
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Are my instructions clear?
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Raise your right hand
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Find a learning partner.
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And the partners are down!
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Are you happy with your learning partner?
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If not, you can pretend.
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So, here's what's gonna happen.
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You and your learning partner,
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nakatayo, magkaharap.
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Face in front of each other.
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yung mas matangkad.
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yung mas matangkad.
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I will give you 30 seconds
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to answer the question.
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You will begin this.
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I'll give you 30 seconds.
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I want you to share
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Listen up to shorter person.
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Your biggest and wildest dream.
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what is your biggest and wildest dream?
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Contact is also important.
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But the most important part here is also
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what will you be talking about.
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I will give you one minute.
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How many minutes, partner A?
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I want you to introduce who you are,
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where you are from,
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sharing to partner B
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ano yung sine-celebrate mo sa buhay mo ngayon.
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You can talk about anything and everything
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that you are truly grateful in your life.
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Ubusin ng one minute.
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Pag hindi mo naubos ng one minute,
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ang tawag kasi inggrato.
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Sa dami na magandang nangyari sa buhay,
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hindi mo kayang ubusin one minute.
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Partner B, your role here is to listen.
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Because later on, you will give partner A a feedback.
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And the most important feedback here is
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naramdaman ko yung happiness mo
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or hindi ko naramdaman or 50-50.
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Very important is feedback.
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Partner A, for one minute,
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are you ready to share about who you are,
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where you're from,
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talk about your family,
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but most important part here is
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what are you truly, truly grateful in your life today?
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Are you clear, partner A?
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Partner B, are you open to listen?
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And be with partner A and do not interrupt
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and be there and make partner A feel
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that he or she is very important.
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Sit up straight. Sit up tall.
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Upang bilyonaryo.
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Partner A, one minute, ready, begin.
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I was given an opportunity to inspire people.
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However, I'm not really an inspirational speaker.
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I'm not a motivational speaker
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but I'm actually a facilitator for learning.
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So which is, if you notice,
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even if it's very formal,
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I still did my usual spiel
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of which the president and the CEO is so happy
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simply because it made it so alive,
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so real, the learning,
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instead of just listening.
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So it's really diving into the experience
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of what learning is all about.
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And right now, they're highly interactive.
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They're speaking to someone who they don't know
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and there's real connection in this event for tonight.
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And they will go home with so much happiness, excitement,
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and learn that they're important,
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they're valuable,
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and so therefore,
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they can all bless the Lord because of this.
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This is what I noticed.
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Some of you were hugging this way.
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Are you aware that the biggest problem on earth right now
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And a lot of people are suicidal.
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You wanna know why?
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Some of you, this is the way you hug.
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Do not do that because you're actually
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tapping the flow of energy.
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Study shows if you get four real connected hugs a day,
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you will survive.
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Ah, kaya pala discouraged na ako kasi
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I never had connection.
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You know guys, no?
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I was up 3.30 this morning.
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I have a whole class of like this,
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high energy, crazy.
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Mataas ang energy ko.
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I got more than 20 hugs.
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Real connected hugs.
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Four hugs to survive.
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Eight hugs to try.
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Twelve hugs to grow.
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But the hugs that we want you to do is
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breathe together,
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three to six hugs.
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How did that feel like?
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Pinapanood nyo lang kami.
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Anong pakiramdam?
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Anong pakiramdam?
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Can we do that tonight?
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Somebody in this room is drowning.
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Maybe that hug is what this person need the most.
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Maybe the person beside you is also suicidal.
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That person needed that hug.
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That's something we can do.
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And allow yourself to feel how does that feel like?
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And stay there no matter what.
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Go ahead. Hug your body.
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Stay there for 3 to 6 seconds.
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My heart is overflowing.
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Truly grateful simply because
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the audience are as sihang
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as 16, 17 year old
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cannot imagine that people
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are longing for this kind of
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message, this kind of growth,
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this kind of aspiration. It's simply because
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we're now in the age where
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everyone has a golden opportunity
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to expand and grow themselves. So I'm just
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so blessed to be invited here
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in the MSV Grand Hall
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and being able to just speak and bless a lot of
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people. I feel so blessed around it. So
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happy and excited for this
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Thank you for watching!
