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never ever make a major decision, especially kung pinagkakakitaan ang pinag-uusapan,
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or mag-resign when you are down, when you are depressed, when you are sad, disappointed,
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because 90% of the decision that you are going to make is going to be a wrong one
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and you are going to regret it for the rest of your life.
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If you do, agree sa comment section.
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So bago po kayo mag-resign sa mga tao ang stress na sa trabaho,
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I want you to take this opportunity to give me an opportunity to coach you and guide you.
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So we will think, reflect, and apply.
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Kung gaano kahalaga itong session na ito, this will be a make or break for you.
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This will be a defining moment.
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Kung magkamali ka ng disisyon, talagang medyo hindi po maganda sa iyo financially, mentally, and emotionally.
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Pero kung pinakinggan mo muna itong video na ito bago ka mag-resign,
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chak na chak mo makakatulong sa iyo.
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Number one question, tanungin mo muna, why?
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Why do you want to resign?
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Alamin mo muna yung tunay na dahilan.
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Dahil ba hindi ka na talaga masaya sa trabaho mo?
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Okay, sa job role mo?
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Toxic ba yung work environment?
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Or if not naman, masyado kang pinupuliti ka?
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O pinagchichismisan, pinagkakaisahan?
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Or if not naman, wala lang growth opportunities?
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Or if not naman, overwork ka and underpaid?
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Wala ka ng work-life balance?
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Or is it just because you want to pursue a better career?
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So make sure, make sure lang po.
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I-sulat mo, okay? Ito yung unang kailangan mo i-sulat.
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I-sulat mo ang dahilan kung bakit mo gustong mag-resign.
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Okay, that's number one.
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Kung nalaman mo na, okay, i-check nga natin kung valid siya o hindi.
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When you say valid, pwede mo ba pang baguhin yung sitwasyon na yun o hindi?
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Can it still improve?
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Have you explored all other options?
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Diba? Nakausap mo na ba yung supervisor mo?
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Nagpapalit ka na ba ng pwesto? Diba?
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So nagawa mo na ba yung part na yun?
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Kung hindi pa, ay naku, bakit ka mag-resign?
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Ito lang mangyayari.
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Kaya, pag yan, hindi mo in-exhaust ang all possible options,
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you know what will happen?
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The next company na pag nilipatan mo, ganoon din ang issue,
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ganoon naman, mag-resign ka ulit.
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Nag-a-agree ka ba?
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Number three, third question that you need to ask yourself is,
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do you have another job lined up?
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Meron ka bang plan B?
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Meron ka bang fallback?
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Meron bang nag-iintay sa'yo?
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At pwede ka pang kumita at tuloy pa rin ang iyong ganansya kahit ikaw ay mag-resign?
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Kung ang sagot mo ay wala at hindi,
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ay naku, huwag ka muna mag-resign kapatid.
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Because nakaka-stress na na imagine mo may problema ka na sa trabaho mo
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tapos nawalang ka pa ng kita.
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Dalawa ng problema mo instead na isa.
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Does it make sense?
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Going back, yun nga, sinasabi ko,
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in fourth question naman,
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na-consider mo na ba yung magiging financial impact?
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Like for example, pag nag-resign ka, paano na yung monthly expenses mo?
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Paano na yung babayarin mo?
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Paano yung amortization mo sa bahay, sa sakyan, sa motor?
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Paano naman yung edukasyon ng anak mo?
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Meron pa bang plan B?
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Chinky, meron naman akong six months.
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A six months na emergency funding.
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Diba? Kayo mo palang na mawala ng six months.
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Pwede ka maghanap ng trabaho.
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I believe within six months.
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Pag ang sagot mo, hindi.
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Diyan ka muna kapatid.
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And then next, number five question,
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Is your decision well-considered and not impulsive?
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Spare of the moment ba to?
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Baka kailangan mo lang muna mag-cool.
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O, mag-chill ka muna.
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Alam mo, ito lang uulitin ko.
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Pag ikaw ay gumawa ng emotional decision,
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you will regret it.
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Ang dami kong mga kinaka-counselan ngayon,
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nai-stress po talaga sila.
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Eh, kasi nga, nainis lang sila.
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Na-bad fit lang sila.
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Let's go to question number six.
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Ask yourself this important and powerful question.
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Are you living for the right reasons?
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Ito naman yung mga,
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kanina sinasabi ko sa inyo,
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mga hindi valid reasons.
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Ito naman po ang mga valid reasons
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kung bakit mo kailangan mag-resign.
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dahil may nag-iintay sa'yo
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mas magandang opportunity.
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Mas magandang posisyon.
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may work-life balance.
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Hindi katulad ngayon,
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binibigyan ka rin pagkakataon
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for a career change,
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higher education.
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And syempre naman,
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mas malaki ang payment,
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Na hindi kayang ibigay ng company mo.
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let's talk it about the health reasons.
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It's just a matter of,
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mas kaunti ang pay na lilipatan mo,
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pero mas hindi toxic
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at hindi physically draining for you.
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Compare right now,
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ang taas-taas na nga income mo,
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health naman ang kapalit.
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relocation for another opportunity
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in another country.
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Or if not naman talagang,
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your time is up already,
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na talagang gusto mo na talagang magpahinga,
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para mag-enjoy ka naman.
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If these are the following reasons
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kung bakit ka mag-resign,
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number seven question also,
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have you also discussed
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this concern with your mentor?
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Yung mga mentors mo,
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yung mga pinagkakatiwalaan mo,
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kasi alam mo sa totoo lang,
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magtanong ka na rin
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sa mga taong labas.
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Kung ikaw lang mag-design,
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wala kang ano eh,
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parang very subjective eh.
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You need someone objective outside.
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Your own personal ano,
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na silang titingin.
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pag nag-de-decide ako parating,
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hindi lang ako nag-de-decide,
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nagtatanong talaga.
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number eight question,
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ano pa yung future plans mo?
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Ito bang pag-re-resign mo,
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aligned sa direction,
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Kung sinasabi mo,
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aligned naman eh,
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do you have already a transition plan in place?
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Like for example,
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ita-turnover mo yung trabaho.
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kailangan may proper turnover,
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hindi ka lang basta mag-re-resign,
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naaalis ka na lang.
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It will leave a bad record on your resume,
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kasi nga umalis ka na parang kang awol.
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And last but not the least,
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the most important question that you need to ask,
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have you considered the impact to your personal life?
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Pasama na po yan ha,
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sa iyong personal,
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not only financial,
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yung paano magiging impact din sa pamilya mo.
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Sa relationship mo,
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sa overall well-being mo.
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kaya nga importante ito,
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itong mga questions na tinanong ko ulit ha.
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bakit mo gusto mag-resign?
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nakausap mo naman yung mga taong involved,
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yung mga boss mo,
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meron ka bang nagaantay na trabaho?
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Ipaano magiging finances nito
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kapag nag-resign ka?
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Impulsive ba yung decision mo?
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kung gusto mo umalis,
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dapat tama ang dahilan.
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nasabi ko na yung kanina.
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nakausap mo na ba yung mga coaches and mentors mo?
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meron ka bang future career plans?
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Meron bang nakaset na para ma-transition mo tama,
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pabalik sa kumpanya?
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consider mo rin kung ano ang magiging personal impact sa iyo,
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at mahal mo sa buhay.
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when you take time to address this question,
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it will help you to make well-informed decision.
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Nakatulong ba itong session and episode natin na ito?
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Kung nakatulong sa inyo,
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at timing na timing,
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nakatulong and timing.
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I want to assure you,
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if you think it well,
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just like me helping you to process right now,
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mas malaking talagang ang chance na once you resign,
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tama ang pag-iisip mo,
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hindi ka magsisisi,
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at syempre naman,
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tama ang magiging career choices mo.
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If you like this video,
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please like this video,
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and don't forget to share this.
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paki-favorite na rin tong video na ito.
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in the near future,
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kung sakaling kailangan mong mag-resign,
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you can go back to this video.
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tamang karunungan,
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tamang disiplina po
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ang susi sa pagyaman.
